“We carry inside us the wonders we seek outside us.” – Rumi
It’s easier to blame your problems on someone else, than to look inwards and realize the problem might be you. In the same way it’s easy to think that the “grass is greener on the other side”, and that our current environment will never be enough to fulfill our dreams.
The truth is that the power to solve your own problems lies within YOU.
While I can not give you the recipe for your own happiness, I can only seek it out for myself – through meditation or self reflection of some kind.
One choice is to minimize the chase for happiness through external things, with an exploration of the happiness within myself.
We all have the tools with us already, each of us will find our own direction eventually if that is what we desire.